You know what I love? Those moments that are less than perfect. You know, when you lean in for a kiss but she turns her head and you get her ear instead of her cheek. When you answer the phone and the person on the other end is doing something so ridiculous and charming that you can’t help but laugh. When you’re telling a story and realize you’re boring the other person, but push on anyway because you’re having so much fun with it. I love the awkwardness, the fumbling, the ways we make ourselves ridiculous when we’re trying too hard.
That’s what I want, you know? A lifetime of trying too hard, of fumbling around, of love that’s like laughter. It doesn’t have to be perfect.
You are poet, you know?
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well said, love. i tell ya, if heaven’s perfect, i want nuthin’ to do with it.
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As amazing as trying to hard would be, I think I’d be able just to settle for trying.
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You know, I’m not sure that I’ve looked at it this way before, but I agree. Those moments are the ones you remember, because they’re real.
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